What I'm Not Doing

 

I sin daily. That is scriptural, (Romans 3:23). We all live in an imperfect world full of imperfect people, from the man or woman that has chosen to live in the world, to the most pious of Popes we are all sinners. The Good News is God anticipated our sinful nature and sent His Son Jesus to be the Savior for you and for me! Praise God for His mercy and grace! But what sins are we praying for forgiveness fo? The sins we "do" or have you ever thought about the asking for forgiveness for what we do "not" do. 

In the Book of Romans, Paul appears to be working through an internal conflict. It is almost like he is battling with the two iconic images of a devil on one shoulder whispering in his ear, while on the other shoulder an angel is perched sharing positive and encouraging guidance. "I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. And if I do what I do not want to do, I agree that the law is good. As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out. For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do - this I keep on doing. Now if  I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it."  Romans 7:15-20. For me, a key concept to point out is Paul admits that he knows what he is supposed to "not" do, but he doesn't do it. We aren't inert beings so it is only reasonable to assume that if we aren't doing the good things we know to do, it may be that we are doing the bad things that we also know we shouldn't be doing. 

When the Bible tells us that we must confess our sins to obtain righteousness, (I John 1:9) that isn't just the sins we are doing each day, it also includes the sins of what we are not doing each day. The Ten Commandments plus Jesus' command to love others in the same manner as we love ourselves is pretty inclusive, but it is reasonable to believe that many folks are convinced that as long as they aren't murdering, stealing, cheating, or denying God is our Savior then they are in pretty good salvation shape. I would counter that thought process with the question of what are we not doing for the Kingdom of Christ that we know in our hearts and souls we should be doing each day?

Giving of my time, resources, and self tops my own list of requests for forgiveness. Too often, we get caught up in our own busyness, which leads us to get things out of order when it comes to setting priorities. Forgiving others and loving our neighbor is a called out command, but how many of us want to cast the first stone or point out the splinter in our brother's eye before we self-reflect about our own sins and the proverbial plank in our own eye. The list of "things" we are not doing that we should is extensive, but the core principle remains constant, if we are not doing what we know we should be doing that in itself is sin. 

So, what do we do? Well, we need to ensure ourselves that we know what we should be doing first. How do we do that? Spending time in His Word, meditating and praying for God's will to be fulfilled in and through us, and then investing our living out our divine purpose. We know what to do, too often we find ourselves in the same predicament as Paul shared above, yet at the end of the day, our charge is clear. "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you." Matthew 7:7. Make the decision to "do" what needs to be done and then do it!

Coach Carter

Holding a Grudge

 Over the years I've encountered family situations where two relatives haven't spoken in years. One person betrayed the other person or one family member believes a certain way and the other family member diverges from that mindset, so suddenly "I've cut ties with that family member" is the route of least resistance. Obviously, this is not something that is unique to family squabbles, life-long friends are just as suspect to fragmented relationships that many times extend over years and years of "I'm right and they are wrong" justifications. In America, we call this phenomenon "holding a grudge". In the minds of the beholder, the wrong warrants revenge or retribution, "You did me wrong so until you get paid back for doing me wrong I'm done with you." Not only is this way of thinking detrimental to building and maintaining positive relationships, it is my opinion that this method of dealing with negative experiences can only deter our own personal growth as a leader in our homes, families, and places of work or school. Additionally, if we are going to live out a life of a true servant of our Lord and Savior, forgiveness has to be a cornerstone of our faith. 

If you have been holding a grudge for any length of time, I'm pretty sure you have justified why you are holding that grudge over and over in your mind and through conversations with others that have confirmed your stance on the issue at hand. That justification may very well be warranted, yet that merit is most certainly of the secular, worldly mindset. A mindshift towards not only forgiveness, but also towards purpose and growth create a totally different approach to addressing a wrong you have encountered. If we want to talk about someone who had a reason to hold a grudge against his family members it would have to be the Biblical figure Joseph. If you think you have a right to be holding a grudge, just look at what Joseph endured and overcame in his own life. 

You may be aptly familiar with Joseph's life, but just a quick recap to put things in their proper perspective. Joseph was, at the time of our story, the youngest of the eleven sons of Jacob. Joseph was a favorite of his father which led to some jealousy from the rest of his brothers. Joseph didn't help matters when he shared some dreams with his family which inherently suggested that one day, the brothers and even his father would bow down to him. From there things went downhill for Joseph. His brothers plotted to kill Jacob and make it look like he was attacked by a wild animal. Only through the intervention of one of his brothers, was the decision made to sell Joseph into slavery to a group traveling to Egypt. The brothers did just that, but still convinced Jacob that his youngest son had been attacked and slain by a wild beast. From there, Joseph was placed in Potipher's house only to be falsely accused of rape, imprisoned, lied to by some of his fellow inmates, but eventually vindicated earning him a high ranking position in the Egyptian hierarchy. During the many years of trials and tribulations that Joseph endured, he never gave up on his faith in God. Finally, the dreams Joseph shared with his family from his youth came to fruition. In the midst of a famine, Joseph's brothers came to Egypt to ask for food and provisions. And who do you think this group of co-conspirators had to make their request to? Of course, Joseph himself. 

After all the years of reflecting and thinking through the looks on his brother's faces as they sold Joseph into slavery, you would think this is where Joseph's grudge would be avenged. If that was your thought then sorry, wrong answer. Genesis 50:20 shares that not only did Joseph show mercy and forgiveness on the very same brothers that sold him into slavery and stole his life with his family, Joseph stated the following sentiment to his brothers, "As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kept alive, as they are today." That took a lot of humility. His grudge would have been justified by just about anyone in the world, but Joseph opted to forgive and actually embrace the journey by which he landed in one of the highest positions in the Egyptian empire. The key takeaway here is that Joseph recognized and stated that the events from his past were all part of God's eventual plan for good. Talk about grudge busters, the life of Joseph should serve as a model for each of us as we should be forgiving rather than condemning. 

Joseph's willingness to forgive his brothers reminds me of another example of forgiveness surpassing a potential grudge. After Jesus was falsely arrested, beaten and tortured, and eventually hung on the cross to die, Jesus looked down on the crowd of onlookers and Roman soldiers and whispered one last prayer to His Father. "Father, forgive them for they know not what they are doing ..." Luke 22:34. 

In your mind you may have a grudge that in your mind is completely justified. Someone you cared about or someone you trusted broke your heart and destroyed your relationship. Today, I ask you to look at the life of Joseph and what he endured, and then take a moment to place yourself on the cross where Jesus died. If forgiveness over retribution is what their example was, what wrong could be seen as unforgivable in your life? God is merciful to forgive us of our sins, should we not do the same for those that we believe have wronged us? Will you continue to hold a grudge, or will you reach out today and share the same grace that you have been given? Choose forgiveness. 

Coach Carter

Finish with the prayer Jesus prayed Father forgive them for they now not what they do. If Joseph followed the example of Jesus and he didn't even know Jesus, what is our excuse for hlding a grudge when we do know about the loving forgiveness of Jesus? Challenge do away with a grudge you have been holding. 

 

Preach On

 Singer-songwriter Ryan Stevenson has a new song out on the airwaves entitled "Preach". Stevenson's latest Contemporary Christian hit poignantly delivers the message that our lives should be the message about our faith. As we live out each day do we spend our time telling people that we are followers of Christ, or does the life we live each day share the message without us even saying a word? "Preach On" is today's FTM Thought, what exactly does that look like? Read on and Preach!

For those that do not necessarily have a firm relationship with our Lord and Savior hearing the word "preach" creates an image of someone condemning their lifestyle. For others "preaching" is equated to teaching or sharing the Good News of salvation and the offer of eternal life in Heaven with our Creator. For me, I fall in the camp of Stevenson's song. I want my life to live out my faith in God as our omnipotent and omniscient creator. I want my life not just my words to deliver the message that Jesus Christ is the Son of God, and that Jesus came to this earth to teach us how to live out a life of service to God and fulfill our commitment to be fishers of men and expand the Kingdom of Heaven. So what does that look like? I thought you'd never ask. 

Have you ever watched a movie with the sound muted? My guess is probably not, but I had a similar type experience several years ago. I watched a movie that was in a completely different language from my native English. There were no subtitles, so honestly the only means by which I could figure out what was going on and the storyline of the movie was by the actions of the people in the movie. To be quite honest, it was a highly enjoyable movie experience, with not a single word throughout the movie in a language I could interpret. The director of the movie and the actors were able to draw me in and convey the theme, plot, and sentiments of the movie via their actions. Would your life convey the love of Christ if you suddenly were unable to convey the message verbally? Would your life preach without words? 

In James 2:18, the author James makes a clear point about our faith. "But someone will say, "You have faith and I have works." Show me your faith without works and I will show you faith by my works." For me James is challenging us to live out our faith by our actions and not by telling others about our actions to convince them that we are followers and servants of the Living God. Preach on. 

When we are down in a valley, our words won't carry us through, but our faith in God during those valley chapters of life will be our source of strength and fortitude. When we make a choice to serve rather than being served, our faith is on display and we don't have to say a word. When things get tough, and we all understand things do get tough, we rely on our faith and we stay the course while God works things out just the way that they need to work out. Our faith should be lived out not spoken out. I want people to ask me why I'm always smiling and why I seem to be happy all the time. That smile and the happiness in my heart are directly correlated to my faith that God is in control and one day I will enter His Kingdom! Yet, while I am here on this earth, I want my life to demonstrate my trusting faith in the One True Living God! Preach on! 

Coach Carter

It Takes One

It takes two people to communicate. Without a two-way channel, one lone person is just talking to himself. Any effective communication requires two people, transversely the same is true for non-productive communication. I suppose you can label an argument as a form of communication, ineffective and non-beneficial most certainly, yet arguing is in essence a form of communication. For all the things in life that it takes two people to successfully accomplish, unfortunately, arguing also fits in that category. 

You most likely have heard the old saying, "It takes two to Tango", referencing the ballroom dance form of the late 1800's and early 1900's. I'm not very well versed in ballroom dancing, but based on my experiences most styles of ballroom dancing do require two people working in a synchronized manner. I suppose you could say the same thing for two people who are cast into an argument, two people are engaged in a back and forth synchronized manner, often shifting from a conversation to often a case of heightened screaming and ultimately the potential for more intense interaction between the two folks. What I want you to do right now is imagine a scene in your mind where two folks are caught up in a verbal argument. Hopefully that wasn't too easy for you to visualize. Now in your mind I want you to remove one person from the scene you have created in your mind. When I went through this mental practice in my mind, what was left was a person babbling to himself, looking pretty silly to be completely honest. It takes two to have an argument, squabble, or even a yelling match. The Apostle Paul offers us some Biblical guidance on arguing, or better yet, not arguing. 

"Again I say, don't get involved in foolish, ignorant arguments that only start fights. A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people. Gently instruct those who oppose the truth. Perhaps God will change those people's hearts, and they will learn the truth." II Timothy 2:23-25.

In other words, it only takes one to not argue. Paul admonishes his young protege Timothy to not engage in pointless arguments where people are fussing for the sake of fussing. Instead, Paul points out that by being a servant of God we "must not" quarrel and instead be patient and model empathy for the other person's point of view. The goal is to be an example of God's love and through that demonstration others  see God living in you and through you. 

A thought to consider, if we, as the hands and feet of our Lord and Savior are to serve as His ambassador to a lost world, how will we ever appear different from this world if we are partaking in fussing and fighting just like the world? It takes two to argue, it only takes one to be God's example of love in the midst of the trials and adversity that we encounter. The choice is yours, choose love and peace. 

Coach Carter

Light vs Night

 

I recently inserted a new nightlight in one of our bathrooms which now provides a little extra illumination in our otherwise dark interior bathroom. Unbeknownst to me this particular nightlight is equipped with a sensor that increases the brightness of the light the darker the room is. How I uncovered this bit of new knowledge is the impetus for today's Flat Tire motivation. 

Early in the morning, I tend to keep the rooms calm and quiet as I begin my devotional time. I don't turn on music, the TV, and only one lamp. That being said, as I walked into the bathroom the first morning after plugging in the nightlight, the hall and adjoining rooms were still dark from the night, but as I entered the room the light popped up a notch and suddenly the room got a little lighter. Hmmm, what about me entering the room initiated the nightlight getting brighter? I concluded, non-scientifically, that as I entered the room my body created additional shadows which were perceived as additional darkness in the room, thus increasing the need for additional light. Made sense to me, so that is my theory and I'm sticking to it. That in turn caused me to put that chain reaction into my thoughts of what happens when I walk into any room. Do I walk into a room full of people and add darkness to that room, or when I enter a room does the Light of God shine in me and through me to the point that it brightens the room and decreases the darkness much like the little nightlight in my home? 

Jesus proclaimed that we are His Light to this world in Matthew 5:14-16, "You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in Heaven." Based on His call to action, it is our responsibility to be a light and shine brightly, diminishing darkness in any room or setting that we enter. In my nightlight analogy, my presence in the room created darkness through the shadows my body projected on the walls increasing the need for additional light. I pray that the same is not figuratively true when I enter any room or gathering I attend. 

My goal is that I shed light anywhere I am. If the Light of Jesus lives in me then it should shine regardless of where I am or who I am with. In John 8:12 Jesus shared that if we follow Him we won't be able to hide our light, "When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, "I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." Just as the children's song proclaims, "This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine!" We make the choice to allow His light shine in and through our lives each day. I want to shine His light ever so brightly, ever diminishing the darkness that persists. 

The prophet Isaiah envisioned the coming of Jesus over 700 years before His actual birth here on earth. Isaiah prophetsized, "The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned." Isaiah 9:2. If we have received His light then we should do all we can to share it each day that He gives us to live for the rest of our lives. Trust, that there is a battle being waged between those who share His light and those who are dwelling in the dark shadows of the night. I choose to shine His light and live each day casting the light of His mercy and grace. The light of our Lord allows you to shine, I challenge you today to not cast a shadow of darkness, but to illuminate the world you live in each day. 

Coach Carter

Great Faith

I recently read a short biopic on an English minister from the mid-1800's named Smith Wigglesworth. His life was filled with adversity and conflict, but his outlook on life reflected a true example of a man of God who placed his faith in front of his life's circumstances. I was especially drawn to a particular quote that was shared regarding his faith in God. The quote goes as follows, "Great faith is a product of great fights. Great testimonies are the outcome of great tests. Great triumphs can only come out of great trials." An old adage came to my mind as I read this message, "nothing ventured, nothing gained". Meaning our faith is based in trust, and trust is developed in adversity or uncomfortable situations. As I read Smith's quote the truth of his statement became a message I had to share. Here we go. 

So, I may be the only one that needed clarity on this topic. I suppose it is possible that most people get it, that for us to experience triumph you have to be in a competition. Trials in life are a competition of sorts. In life's trials we are all fighting against an enemy. It may be a person, it could be a thing such as cancer, or it may be an internal matter such as depression or doubt, but we all experience battles in life. Just as a warrior going to battle against his enemy, we battle the demons that are attempting to knock us down and destroy our relationship with God. Going to battle requires us to equip ourselves with armor and weapons to overcome our adversary and Paul provides us with a checklist of items we should secure as we go to war with our adversities in Ephesians 6:10-23. The battle is the means by which we gain the ends of increased faith. Without the former we can not gain the latter. My point here is you won't experience triumph if you don't first have the conflict to overcome. Embrace your conflicts, they lead to victory. 

"Great testimonies are the outcome of great tests." This past week I experienced what I believe to be my fortieth flat tire since around 2010. Although that was not a "great test" it was a testament to grit and resilience. I was extremely thankful for my friend and colleague Matt Price who, just like a pit crew chief, grabbed the tire wrench and went straight to the business of loosening the nuts while I jacked up the car. The true test is that I have had an extremely high number of flat tires over the past fifteen years. Without those flat tires I would not have the testament of persevering through adversity if not for the tests of fixing my flats. Additionally, "Flat Tire Ministries" which is a direct outcome of all of those flat tires and the ability to problem solve and troubleshoot in times of a test. The Apostle Peter shared "Your faith will be like gold that has been tested in a fire." I Peter 1:7. Gold is only purified through the heat of the fire, our testimony is created through the fire of tests of adversity. 

Finally, Wigglesworth shared that great faith is the direct product of great fights. In all of his wisdom King Solomon provided us with the Book of Proverbs. The vast collection of wise sayings to live by is a treasure in itself and Proverbs 17:3 speaks to the idea of growing our faith through life's struggles. "Fire tests the purity of silver and gold, but the Lord tests the heart." I have talked with a number of family and friends since my latest flat tire incident and it has served as a symbol of faith over circumstances in many of those conversations. As you encounter life's struggles and trust me you will, having a strong, unbreakable faith will see you through. One of my Bible heroes is Paul, and Paul made it clear that regardless of the thorn in his flesh, he was going to continue serving and believing in Christ as his personal savior. In II Corinthians 12:9-10 Paul establishes his faith in this statement "But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness. Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." Great faith. 

A flat tire is a mere inconvenience, forty flat tires is a fight. I thank God for the opportunities to share messages each week through the lessons I have learned persevering through 40 flat tires and all the other struggles, challenges, and fights in my life. Without the struggles, fights, and challenges I would not have built the resilience I have acquired, nor would I have learned how to get back up when I got knocked down. I challenge you to flip the script on your own challenges and struggles today. I am certain your battles are much more serious or severe than my flat tires, but a challenge is a challenge and a fight is a fight. Whatever you are facing, know that you are not facing it alone. Rely on your faith and trust that God is in it with you, and He will see you through it! 

Coach Carter

"MORE"

 "More please". Those two words are indicative of where we are in society today. Sadly, the second word isn't always included and it is almost more of a demand, "More!". Wanting more out of life isn't necessarily a bad thing and working hard to achieve "more" is not a negative approach to life at all, yet if the desire for "more" is your driving force, then that very likely tips the scales in the wrong direction of guiding forces in your life. In a society that celebrates gaining more and more, I pray for a different narrative to become the standard by which we live. Instead of asking "more please" what would our world be like if we focused our attention on the act of "pleasing more"?

Two words one focused on taking care of self, the other set on service to others. In action these two words demonstrate what gets our attention each day. If you shape your daily plans around the "more please" attitude, the things you say, the schedule you create, and the intent of the things you do will be centered around one person, you. This can happen unconsciously or even unknowingly because this is a cultural lifestyle that pervades our society. Social media tells us that the more "likes" the more popular we are. Hollywood and the entertainment industry invoke the mindset of wanting more shimmer and more glitter, more body perfection, and more bling bling that supposedly will make everything better. I remember reading that John D. Rockefeller, who during his era was one of the wealthiest people on earth, was asked about how much money was enough. His reply, "just a little bit more". Rockefeller lived in the early 1900's, if that mindset was a driving force for the wealthy then, how do we even define the "MORE" culture we live in today? 

Conversely, opposite of the "more please" mindset, is the more life fulfilling mind shift of "pleasing more". With pleasing more, the focus is automatically off of self. When we seek to take care of other's needs there is no way to spend as much time worrying about what we want. We have a guarantee that our needs will be met in Luke 12:22-31 ", so anything else should fall in the category of a wishlist want. Later on in the same chapter of the Gospel of Luke, Jesus reminds us that, "... where your treasure is, there your heart will be also." Luke 12:34. In other words if you place your focus on wanting more for yourself then your heart will only focus on taking care of yourself, but if you place your attention on taking care of the needs of those that are in true need of help, then your attention will be less on self and more on the needs of others.

So what do we do to shift our focus from "MORE" for me to one where we are pleasing God "MORE" through our service and selflessness to others? In the Gospel of Mark chapter 9 the disciples had been arguing about which one of them was the best disciple, albeit more of me, when Jesus questioned them about their argument. After hearing their self-centered stances, Jesus' response is timeless, "Anyone who wants to be first must be the very last, and servant of all." This in turn brings to mind the parable of the rich man who wanted to gain eternal life and asked Jesus what it would take. Jesus basically told the man that he would have to follow the Ten Commandments to which the rich man replied that he was doing so, but that is when the rubber hit the road. Then Jesus shared that if the man truly wanted to follow Him, the man should sell all he had and give his wealth to the needy. The rich man's response, "But when the young man heard Jesus tell him to give away his money, he was sad. He didn't want to do this, because he was very rich. So he left." Matthew 19:22, textbook "more for me please".

The true essence of our service to God lies in the mentality of thinking about ourselves less. That in itself is a paradoxical shift as many times we equate our life's significance based on what we have, in the "more please" world, the more you get the more you have enhances your self-worth. The more I get, the more people will respect and want to be around me way of thinking. As we have learned from our text today, that way of thinking is way off base. So far off base that Jesus provided a comparison for those out there that are stuck in the "more please" way of thinking. After the young, rich man walked off, Jesus provided this analogy, "I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God" Matthew 19:23-24. As we enter this new week, give some reflective time to where you are in the "more for me" or "more of me for others" mindset. Take the focus off of your own wants and needs and start placing your time and attention on how you can better serve those you live with, those you work with, and those you encounter along this journey called life!

Coach Carter

 

Change Your Perspective and Change Your World

"There is no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing," Norwegian saying. What an outstanding perspective. Let's break that down a bit. Basically what this standard setting statement says is that the weather is going to be whatever it is going to be. If you live in Norway, it is a given that you should expect some frigid temperatures and at other times there are periods of damp wet conditions. During the summer months one can expect a mild to warm climate. In other words, there are some variances in the climate of Norway much like they exist around the world. The key to this Norwegian nugget is that regardless of what the weather of the day brings, it is be expected so prepare yourself accordingly and then go about your day as usual. Again, that is quite the method for grounding yourself in a positive mindset. Whatever you find yourself dealing with, it is comparable to the weather. Things are going to happen in your life, some not as good as others, but life happens. Our responsibility is to respond in a similar style to that of the Norwegian saying above. "There is no such thing as a bad lesson to learn, just bad perspectives in learning those lessons."

You can play the blame game all day long and it will probably work for you. I've never been one to blame someone else for my situations. Believe me, it would be much easier to allow my pointer finger to direct the focus on someone else or something else, but that just isn't the way I look at life. How do you react to a bad decision that doesn't go in your favor? The person who believes in the notion that there is such a thing as "bad weather" would say, things always go against me, someone has it out for me, or they lay the blame at the feet of the person who made the decision. For someone that falls more on the "no such thing as bad weather" perspective,  they would respond by looking introspectively at themselves and begin the work of improving those areas to better ensure success going forward. No bad weather, just bad preparation for the weather of the day. 

How about when a team you are part of doesn't win the tournament? Do you accept the defeat graciously and move forward, or do you seek a scapegoat to lessen the blow? The other team cheated, the referee must be about blind, or the home field advantage just stole the win. These are all examples of not accepting the weather for what it is and instead complaining about the rain even though there is a 50/50 chance of showers. When you play a game one team is going to come out with the lesser score and I'm guessing that equates to a 50% chance that your team could lose. No guarantees of victory, just a guarantee that the game is going to be played and then preparation comes into the equation. 

I've mentioned preparation in both of the instances above and that is not by coincidence. For the people of Norway, the better you prepare for the weather of the day, the better your experience will be for the day regardless of the weather. In life, preparation for whatever comes your way on a day to day basis or even more so, for the situations and circumstances that you find yourself dealing with whether it be health, relational, business, or personal life matters, makes all the difference. And what better preparation is there than preparing your heart, mind, body, and soul through a growing relation with our Lord and Savior. Time spent in reading, studying, and meditating on God's Holy Word is time well spent in preparing us for what comes our way. Prayer is a huge component in being prepared for what life brings your way. Prayer is our direct line of communication with God and a definite shaper of our perspective on life. There is no bad weather, just bad clothes, and likewise there is no such thing as a bad rap, just bad preparation for what may be coming your way. 

"This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Psalm 118:24. Regardless of what the weather is, we get to choose how we will receive it. We can complain that the rain ruined our plans for the day, or we can be grateful for the nourishment to the soil and plants that provide us with the delicious vegetables it produces. If we are thankful for the day that God has given us then our perspective will change to one that more closely resembles the mindset of the Norwegian people in terms of the weather outside. God gave you the day, whatever it brings be glad you have a day to enjoy and embrace it for what it will provide. Regardless of what the day brings, keep in mind there is no guarantee you would have this day. 

"I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live." Ecclesiastes 3:12

See It, Be It

 A few years back an educator I had the privilege to work alongside, Mrs. Amy Whaley, was in the running for Tennessee Teacher of the Year. Mrs. Whaley is an amazing educator and in my opinion should have been selected for the TOY award that year. Nevertheless, during her campaign that year, she crafted a tagline, (See It, Be It), to draw attention to the fact that young people can only imagine what they "want to be" when they grow up unless they have first hand knowledge of what career options are out there. This is the foundation of Career and Technical Education (CTE) programs as they allow students to explore, engage, and immerse themselves in related work experiences that represent career fields that are in high demand, high skill, and high wage in our region. Ms. Whaley's campaign centered on the notion that we have to be committed to supporting students in all aspects of their educational journey and assisting them to "see" what might be possible. Otherwise, if they don't see the career options, how can they ever intentionally "be" someone in those career fields. 

The same is true for us in life. For us to live a life of service and commitment to the God of All Creation we need to "see" God. We associate seeing God with being in a church, but it is estimated that well under 40% of Americans attend church at least once a week, making the likelihood of seeing God in a place of worship limited at best. Just as in the career exploration matter above, if as a society we are not "seeing" God in His house of worship, then how is it possible that America will "be" a population of faith filled servants to the one, true, living God? 

Well, to answer my own question, in the vast majority of situations it doesn't just happen by accident. Making the decision to accept God as your personal savior and then following Him and leading others to Christ happens when we live out the life of purpose that God called us to live. As we are living out the life God purposed us to live then others will see God living in us and His work can be accomplished through us. In the case of Christianity and becoming a follower of Christ, it isn't a struggle that is only relevant to our current situation. Even when Jesus was here in human form teaching, modeling, and living out a life of sacrifice and love, some of His closest followers were at times doubters and deniers. In the Gospel of John 20:24-29 Thomas, one of Jesus' own disciples expresses his doubt that Jesus had risen from the grave and states that he would have to see the nail scared hands of Jesus before he would believe. And prior to that Peter actually denied he even knew Jesus in fear of retribution during the arrest of Jesus before the crucifixion (Luke 22:54-62). If men who were traveling and teaching alongside Jesus had trouble believing in God and His omnipotent ability to raise His Son Jesus from the grave, how much more of a challenge is there for men and women to "be" like Jesus if they cannot "see" Jesus? The answer, they can "see" Jesus if we will "be" like Jesus. 

Our responsibility to everyone we meet is to "be" the hands, feet, and heart of Jesus. We help others when they are in need. Our hands lift others up and place them on solid ground. With our feet we move to those in need rather than waiting for them to come to us. And probably as important as anything else, we need to have the heart of Jesus and model His love for our fellow man when they may not even deserve the love we are giving. Our words speak with great volume, but our day to day interactions, choices, and the decisions we make are the true demonstration of allowing people to "see" God living in and through us, thus allowing them to "see" how to "be" like Jesus. 

So, how do we live a life that demonstrates to others how they can "be" like Christ? Good question, easy answer. In John 13:12-15 Jesus told His disciples, "So when He had washed their feet, taken His garments, and sat down again, He said to them, "Do you know what I have done to you? You call me Teacher and Lord, and you say well, for so I am. If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another's feet. For I  have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you." We model the teachings of Jesus and the life that He lived while He was here among us. The life of Jesus was the very life and lifestyle Paul adopted after He regained His sight from His encounter with Jesus on the Damascus road. As Paul continued to live and serve Christ, his life became more and more like Christ, "My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me." Galatians 2:20. Once we submit our lives to Christ it doesn't mean we will never fall short, trust me, I fall short daily. Yet the life I live is no longer mine, when I fall short of God's design for the life He purposed for me, I seek His forgiveness, right my wrong, and learn from it for the next time I encounter any similar situation. We are not perfect like Jesus was, in our imperfections we serve and live out a life in an ever growing relationship with the One that saved us and calls us to be His light to this darkened world. I want to live a life that others can "see" Christ living in me, and thus make the decision to "be" a follower of Christ as well. See It, Be It. 

Coach Carter

The Secret of How to Live (on) Forever

 Spoiler alert, I have not located the "fountain of youth". Second spoiler alert, you don't have to physically live forever to live "on" forever. Today's inspiration focuses on what we need to do to accomplish the latter as opposed to the elusive search for Ponce de Leon's fount. If you want to live (on) forever, I believe I have some sound advice on how to get there, let's go!

Plant seeds. "Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life." Galatians 6:8. My sister and brother-in-law recently visited one of the Redwood forests out west, an area to visit on my bucket list. Not only are these trees enormous, their longevity is note-worthy as well. Trees can live hundreds of years giving them the appearance of living forever, yet unfortunately even the Redwood tree has a life-span. The key to the Redwood not becoming extinct is found in the seeds it bears and the eventual sapling it produces. The same is true for farmers who plant seeds, nurture the plants, harvest the crops, and then start the process over again. Farmers do not plant seeds one time and believe their job is done. It is definitely a cycle that must be continued over and over again. That same principle holds true for us in our endeavor to live forever. As Christ followers, we plant seeds each day and that process is endless much like the farmer's role in the cycle of planting, nurturing, and harvesting. As parents, coaches, teachers, workers, supervisors, or any other leadership role you might possess, we are tasked with planting seeds of hope, resilience, commitment, empathy, and love. Of course love is going to top off the list (I Corinthians 13:13). Love covers a multitude of sins (I Peter 4:8) and love is the core factor in nurturing others to become marathon life timers. We do not literally live forever, but those seeds you plant will be eternal if we teach those we live and work with the concept of planting seeds of love and hope. 

Impact the world you live in. In what community do you live? Hint, don't think small. You may live in an apartment complex, a subdivision, a neighborhood, or you may live in a rural community where everyone there knows each other's name. You may focus on your job and the people you work with each day. For some their community consists of the members of their immediate family. For others, the term community brings visions of cities, the state they live in, or even their country or the global community in which we reside. Whatever you deem as your community what is the impact you are making? If you've been following Flat Tire Ministries for any length of time, you most likely understand my take on impact. We are all leaders, how effective and eternal that impact is going to be rests on whether your engagement in their lives is positive and life-building, or negative and sucks the life out of everyone you come in contact with. To live on forever, make your impact a positive one. Your impact will in turn impact others perpetually. 

Make the legacy you are living a positive one. Similar to impact, but a legacy is eternal in itself. What I taught and continue to teach my children are traits and qualities I learned from my father, and those same qualities will be the traits and qualities my children pass down to my grandchildren. Our grandkids will have children someday, and the influence they have on their children will come directly from the life I lived and the importance I placed on certain aspects of living a life well lived. That is how our legacy allows us to live on forever. Your legacy may primarily influence your family, but I believe we can create a legacy in the workplace, in our communities, and around the world. When I think of a legacy model the world renowned evangelist Billy Graham crosses my peripheral vision. Billy Graham's career spanned over 60 years touching the lives of millions of people around the world. Today, Billy Graham's five children are all directly involved in ministry and serving God in their communities. The legacy Pastor Graham cemented in Christ continues to endure, allowing him to in essence, "live on" forever!

What an awesome and amazing responsibility we carry. We have the opportunity to live on forever through the seeds we plant in the lives of others, by the impact we have on those we interact with each day, and by our legacy which we are creating through our words, actions, and the life we live. Don't take this responsibility lightly. "But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display His immense patience as an example for those who would believe in Him and receive eternal life." I Timothy 1:16. Your life matters today, tomorrow, and forever. Amen.

Coach Carter

The Price Is Right

 We all love a good deal. Finding a bargain for me is like uncovering a hidden treasure. Little deals or major purchases, finding a deal is what it is all about. Buying a new car or truck today is a major investment. Honestly, the average new vehicle price tag is in line with what a new house would have cost back when I was a young man. (Notice: I didn't say anything about me being old now, I'm just not as young as I used to be) So finding the best deal possible is on most folks minds when it becomes obvious that a "new" vehicle is on the horizon. Rebates, end of the year promos, and salesmen meeting end of month quotas may have a favorable impact on the sticker price listed, but at the end of the day, it's the haggling and back and forth with the auto dealership team that helps seal the deal. It all boils down to one thing, if the price is right, the answer to the offer is "yes". 

Getting a deal at the right price is a learned skill, some folks are way better at haggling a price and they seem to always get the sweetest deals. For others, the art of getting the right price comes down to just pure luck. Being in the right place at the right time seems to happen to certain people all the time. And then there are the folks that do all the research, homework, and preparation for making a case as to what the right price is. Or, you could be like me and fit somewhere in the middle of all of the above. Regardless, we all want a deal. Well today I've got a deal to share with you and guess what? The price is as right as it could ever be, free!

Salvation is defined as the state of being saved or protected from harm or a dire situation. In terms of Christianity salvation refers to the soul being delivered from sin and its consequences. So, as is the case with the vast majority of things in this life, nothing comes free, and salvation fits in that category. Saving our soul from sin and condemnation was accomplished through Jesus. Jesus paid the price for all mankind's sins through His death on the cross. "God's Son, Jesus, paid the price for our sins and made us free. Yes, God has forgiven us." Colossians 1:14. 

When Jesus made the sacrifice to pay the sin debt for us, He in essence paid the price for our sins and thus He made the cost of salvation "free"! Free in the sense that you or I  do not have to pay anything for our salvation, it is free. Pretty good deal I would say. If you were looking for a great deal on a new vehicle and when you asked for the sticker price, you were told it is free, you would either be floored with disbelief or you would be ecstatic filled with joy because you had just been offered a deal you couldn't refuse. Free would definitely fit under the "price is right" category. 

Today, you can't buy salvation, freedom from sin has already been paid for over 2,000 years ago. Our salvation had a price tag and it cost Jesus everything, and the price was paid on the cross of calvary. Since the price is paid, what do we have to do to receive this gift that Jesus provided to all mankind? Romans 3:19 tells us to, "Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing come from the Lord", once again we are assured salvation comes at a price we can all well afford, free! If you have asked God to forgive you of your sins and you have received His forgiveness then you already know that you did not have to pay a penny for His free gift of salvation. If you are carrying around your sins and you have never asked God to forgive you of your sins, then today is the day for you to receive His free gift of salvation. Trust me, the price is right, accept the gift Jesus made available to each of us throughout mankind. Accept forgiveness and enter His free gift of salvation. The price is right!

Coach Carter

  

"Let it Reign"

The Contemporary Christian singer/songwriter Crowder sings the song, "Let It Rain", which sends out a dual message in my opinion. On the top layer "Let It Rain" asks God to "rain down" His love on us. The chorus echos that request throughout the song,

"Lord, I need you more and more (I need You more and more)

Let it rain, rain down on me

Every day, whatever You want

Not my will but Yours, Lord (not my will)

Let it rain, rain down on me"

I can feel the yearning for God's outpouring of love and constant companionship throughout his song. What I picked up on as I really listened to the words and cries for God's intervention in life's struggles in this song was a welcoming invitation. Today, I'd like to suggest we change the title of this song from "Let It Rain" to "Let It Reign". Subtle title change, dramatic change in request. 

When we figuratively ask God to "rain" down on us, that is more of a request for God's love, compassion, comfort, or peace to shower us with love. Blue skies turned gray? Let God's love rain down on us. Good times turned bad? Let God's comfort rain down on us. Has your happy day turned into a sad day? Let God's comfort assure you all is well through the rain of His loving embrace. If you have ever cried out to God in your sadness or disappointment and felt His embrace, then you know what it feels like to have God rain down His love. If you haven't ever asked God to rain down on your situation ask and you can experience the calming, peace of His love. 

For me, the deeper meaning, intentional or unintentional, of the title "Let It Rain" is the idea that I want God to "reign" in my heart, soul, body, and mind. "Every day, whatever You want, not my will but Yours, let it (reign) down on me!" This is a reference to Jesus' prayer in the Garden of Gethsemane just before His arrest and eventual death on the cross. Jesus prayed, "Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done." Luke 22:42. Jesus was made of flesh and bones just like us, He didn't want to suffer like He was about to, but He also wanted His Father's will to "reign" over His own fleshly desires. Oh how I want to be more like Jesus! Lord not my will but Yours, let it reign down over me!

So what does that look like? We can all picture God's love "raining" down on us, giving us comfort in our grief and mercy when we sin, but what does it look like if we ask God to "reign" down on us? To me, just like the prayer Jesus prayed, we want to get to the place where we seek God's will each and every minute of each and every day. It no longer matters what we want to do, it is all about completely submitting to God's will for this life He gave us to live in the first place. "Not my will, but yours" basically means we are willing and ready to sacrifice what we want, and replace it with whatever God wants us to do or experience. We may receive showers of blessings or we may encounter storms of life, but regardless, we lean in and say "Lord, Thy will  be done, not my own". If we got everything the way we want things to turn out, there wouldn't be any storms, but storms are necessary when we submit our own desires and relinquish control over our lives to the Lord. Let it reign! Let it pour! Lord, I need You more and more! We can rest assured that God is in control of the "rain" and His "reign" reaches us wherever we may be.

"The Lord reigns, let the earth be glad; let the distant shores rejoice." Psalm 97:1

Coach Carter

The MESSage in the Mess

 Stating the obvious, life is messy. Relationships can be fragile, where a word or especially a written word in today's texting society can send shockwaves through a longtime friendship. Finances are one paycheck blip away from a tumultuous hardship. Messes in the workplace, messes with our health situations, and messes on our daily journeys! Life is messy. Yet, as is the case with pretty much everything, I believe that there is a message in every mess of life.   

I'll be the first to admit that I'd prefer to not have any messy situations come across my lap. I mean who goes and gets in line for a disagreement, hardship, or calamity? Nevertheless, as we know all to well, the "bad" stuff happens and it often feels like it happens way too often! It is easy to get down or to feel downtrodden in the face of adversity. The potholes of life can lead to flat tires, which result in your life's journey being interrupted. What I'm suggesting today is that when the messy and inevitable stuff of life settles in on our lives, we don't have to appreciate the hardship, but we most certainly can and should look through the mess to see the message that God is wanting us to hear. I'd like to share three messages that I rely on when things have gotten messy for me and/or my family. 

First, it is important to remember that God has a purpose for each person's life. Before the creation of the world, God had a plan for Chuck Carter's life, and He created your life with a distinct purpose in mind. The Apostle Paul confirms this in Romans 8:28-30 with this encouraging promise, "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to His purpose. For those God foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, that He might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those He predestined, He also called; those He called, He also justified; those He justified, He also glorified." Knowing God has a plan for my life gives me an indescribable peace and that peace gives me the strength to move forward in the face of the harshest of trials or tribulations. 

My second encouraging scripture is taken from the Book of Genesis and the story of Joseph's life. Joseph endured many hardships in life ranging from being sold into slavery by his jealous brothers, to being thrown into prison for a crime he didn't commit. If you know Joseph's story then you know that through those hardships, God had a plan to make Joseph second in command in Egypt and eventually have the opportunity to save his father and family from starvation and death. It would have been easy for Joseph to have blamed his brothers for all he endured, but instead Joseph realized that God works through what we see as messy to get us to His message. "You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people." (Genesis 50:20). Too often folks want to give up when things get messy, God wants us to be like Joseph and endure the messy so we can live out His ultimate plan for this life God gave us to live. I can list way too many instances that if I had given up or walked away from the messy things in my life, I would have never received the message to "Never give up, Never quit, and always do your best". That mantra has driven me throughout my career and my personal life. 

Lastly, knowing that God is with us gives me the strength I need to persevere. In Romans 8:31 Paul asks two extremely bold questions for us to answer during our daily walk through the messiness of life. "What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?" If God is walking with you through the trials of life, then who could ever provide enough opposition to outdo God? Let me answer that question, it isn't possible. If we are willing to endure the messy whatever it may be, then the comfort and courage we have in knowing God is for us and He is with us, gives us the strength to carry on. That is why the author of James 1:2-4 was able to make this bold statement, "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." Let me paraphrase that tidbit of advice, "When things get messy, hold on tight, don't give up, help is on the way!" That is the message,  you are not alone, you will never be too far away from God that He isn't right there with you. It may feel like you are alone, but that is on us, God is faithful and His love endures forever. 

Today, I encourage you to look inside the messy and find the MESSage God has for you!

Coach Carter

Come on in, the Door Is Open

I can remember times throughout my life when I have visited friends or family and as I knocked on the door or rang the doorbell, a voice from inside would call out, "Come on in, the door is open!" What a sense of comfort and trust I felt. Here was someone that couldn't see me, but they knew me and they felt comfortable enough to say come on in, with no regard of my appearance or life condition. I mean honestly, I could have just come out of a mud pit and covered from head to toe with caked on dirt. I could have been sprayed by a skunk and my odor would definitely precede me. Any number of conditions may have befallen me before I knocked on that person's door, but hearing those words, "Come on in" put a smile on my face. I hope you have had that same experience in your life. The sad reality is that some haven't, and others may feel like they don't have anyone that would ever say those words to them. Trust me. There is someone who is eager to call out to you, "Come on in, the door is open" you just need to knock on His door!

Christian singer/songwriter Zach Williams has a song out on the soundwaves titled  Jesus Loves , in which the invitation to "Come on in" could have easily been the title. Actually, the inspiration for today's Flat Tire thought came directly from the words of this powerful song. Williams provides a litany of open invitations to those that we may not have been so quick to offer the open door policy from above. The renegades, the rebels, runaways, prodigals, those that are lost, the backsliders, the up all nighters, and those in a rut all receive the invitation to come on in. As I read the lyrics I wondered if that list was being offered to me so that I would not have the opportunity to think I was not invited! Well, if that list doesn't cover your life, then maybe something from the second stanza resonates with your life. Those with shattered dreams, bruised, battered, or even barely hanging on. Those who are heartbroken, lonely, or all alone. Those that believe they are an outcast or stuck in their past, and those that are scared of letting go of the past. Guess what, the invitation is open to you as well. "Come on in, the door is open!"

The truth of this open invitation lies in the very words of Jesus as He shared the original invitation to His disciples and a crowd of people He had never personally met in Matthew 7:7-8 "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened." The door is open, come on in! This was the message Jesus was sent to this earth to share. No one was to be excluded, nothing from their past was so bad that they were not invited. Instead Jesus made it clear that if you ask, you will receive. If you seek Him, you will find Him, and whoever knocks on His door to salvation, the door is open, so come on in. That message was true more than 2,000 years ago, and it is still true today. Jesus is the founder of the "open door" policy, and His offer is available to you and I regardless of our dirt or our baggage, to each of us He is shouting out, "Come on in, the door is open". 

To expand on the truth that Jesus invites anyone and everyone to enter into His righteousness, let's turn to another directive from Jesus found in Matthew 11:28-30, "Come to me, all you who are weary and heavy burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your weary souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." I find comfort in this scripture, knowing that Jesus wants my dirty past, he feels the pain of my sufferings, and He wants us to place all of our burdens on Him. I can almost hear Jesus calling out, "Come on in, the door is open, take your dirty shoes off at the door, you won't need them anymore!" 

Throughout the song,  Jesus Loves , Williams extends the invitation that Jesus provided to us while He walked and taught in this world. I want to close today by sharing the last stanza of the song: 

"So come on in, the door is open, and the savior's arms are too. The table's set, a seat is waiting and He saved it just for you. So no more running, no more hiding, come on in and you will find that you don't have to be enough, no, no, no, it's been decided by the blood. Yes, you're someone Jesus loves, someone Jesus loves, you're already someone Jesus loves." Zach Williams

Imagine yourself knocking on the door to Jesus's house, you knock and all He says is "Come on in, the door is open" Ask, seek, and by all means knock, His door to peace, love, and salvation is open and waiting on you.

Coach Carter 

Are Mistakes Really a Mistake?

John Maxwell's "The Daily Reader" is a constant source of guidance and growth for me as I am ever  developing others and myself as lifetime learning leaders. Maxwell's inspirational guide is packed with daily practices that should become part of who you are if your aspirations are to be a leader. (Don't forget, everyone is a leader. The only differentiating factor is some people are leading up, others are leading down, and some are leaders of complacency and therefore not leading anywhere, they are stuck in the mud of mediocrity.) In today's Flat Tire Thought, I'd like for us to dissect the true essence of making mistakes and how we should view mistakes in our life's journey. 

To some of us out there, if I were to ask an audience if any one of them had never made a mistake and one person raised their hand you would be so impressed. For the majority of us, we would be skeptical, and for a few of us we would call it what it is "not possible". There has only been one person who has walked this earth who was faultless to the level of perfection, and beyond that we are all a bunch of mistake prone individuals. But, guess what? That's okay, my question today is "Are mistakes really a mistake?"

Here's what the Apostle Paul shared with the followers in the Church at Philippi, "Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own. Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 3:12-16). The "this" that Paul is referencing in verse 12 is nothing less than the perfection of Christ. Yet, it is noteworthy to point out that Paul says he knows he hasn't reached perfection, and most certainly never will, but he continues to "press on". In other words, Paul is ensuring us that it is okay to mess up, mistakes are a normal part of life. Not that we want to go out and live a destructive lifestyle, but more that we understand that we are not perfect, and when we fail or make a mistake the positive or the negative outcome associated with our mistake is to be determined by what happens next. 

Some folks choose to wallow in their mistakes and vow to never mess up again, but the methodology they choose to utilize is to stay right where they are and never go out on a limb again. Others make mistakes and choose to never take ownership of their mistakes. My daughter, who is a little more like me than she may want to own up to, shared this one with me the other day from decorated military veteran and author Steve Maraboli, "Those with a perpetual victim mindset tend to create the situations from which they suffer." Own up and be accountable, mistakes and even failures are going to happen, it is okay to admit you messed up. Then there are others that have the ability to do great things, but they are so easily frozen by the fear of failure that they do not take any chances so they won't ever be in danger of making a mistake. I personally cannot relate to this mentality. I often use the analogy of a baby learning to walk. If the baby, in fear, does not stand up and take that first step and eventually fall on their derriere, then that child will be crawling around on the floor throughout life. I don't want to crawl, I want to walk, run, and eventually fly! (Isaiah 40:31). 

I guess you can figure out the last group of individuals and how they face mistakes. I belong in this group, not because of anything I've done outside of never quitting or never giving up, but because of the perseverance I have developed through adversity throughout my life. It is my belief that the grit and resilience to overcome mistakes and even monumental failures in life is in each of us. How we address, deal with, and eventually move forward or backward will shape us as either an overcomer or an underachiever. The day that I read this devotional in the Maxwell daily encourager, I made a note in my phone of what I believe would serve as my philosophy in life as it pertains to mistakes and failures. "I would prefer to have a life full of the mistakes I've made rather than make the mistake of not living life to the fullest and learning from the mistakes made in those experiences." I do not promote recklessness and I would by far rather have things go just as planned, but at the end of the day, the flat tires in my life and the shattered panes of glass I have looked through have been the driving force to the man I am today. Through God's unending mercy and grace, I have not only survived, I have thrived due to His guiding hand and His loving embrace. So I ask you today, "Are mistakes really a mistake?"

Coach Carter

From, Through, and For Him

 Everybody loves to receive a gift. Birthdays, Christmas, showers, and other celebrations make for prime opportunities to share a gift with family or friends. Other unexpected gifts given for no other reason than to give one, make for an even more rewarding experience for both giver and recipient. In today’s Flat Tire thought we are going to look at the gifts God has given us either directly or indirectly. The scripture we will base our conversation around will be  Romans 11:36 "For from Him and through Him and for Him are all things. To Him be the glory forever! Amen." What Paul is essentially saying is everything comes from Him, the one true living God. 

Stop, pause, and look around. I mean seriously look around. Everything your eyes can see and even the things you can't see  came from God. Trees, grass, flowers, rivers, and streams, sun and moon, and every living creature that exists. These were all created for you. Impossible you say, How could all of this have been created for you or I at the beginning of time? But it is true, the gifts of this world all come from God. Our families, our home, our jobs, and our skills are just as much a gift from above, not by anything we do, but everything we are and have are from God our Heavenly Father. "All we are and have we owe to God, Holy God of Israel, our King!" Psalms 89:18.

Have you ever experienced what could be labelled a miracle? I would suggest that whether you answered that question with a "yes" or a "no", you most certainly have experienced a miracle through God's faithfulness. We hope and we pray for healing in a health issue for a loved one or we ask God to intervene in our hardships and challenges. Whatever it is, we pray for answers through God's Holy Spirit. Think of it like a conduit through which electricity flows from the source directly to us. Love, joy, peace, hope are all gifts that we receive through God's love to us. I am reminded of the verse in Psalms 121:1-2 "... where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, maker of Heaven and earth."

When we really give thought to our lives and all that we have been given from our Creator, then, when we think about how we have received abundantly more than we could ever earn or deserve through God's love, it is hard to come to terms with the fact that God did all that He has done for you and for me. To the extent of God allowing His Son Jesus, to die on the cross for our sins. "For God so loved the world that He gave his one and only son, so that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him." John 3:16.  

The free gifts of forgiveness and redemption came from God to each of us. Through  the life of His Son Jesus, we have been taught how to give rather than expect to receive, and it is our responsibility to do all we can for God to ensure we live out the life God purposed us to live! If that doesn't place a smile on your face, I'm not sure what will! 

Coach Carter

Trust & Obey

 Trust. That word alone sounds so simple. As believers we share the word "trust" in very simple terms. When someone is in need we encourage them to "Trust in the Lord", or in other words "trust" that everything is going to be okay. By saying to others "Trust in God's plan for your life" or even saying it to ourselves, we are assuming there exists faith. We can't trust what we don't have faith in. We trust that the vehicle we are riding in is going to get us safely to our destination because we have faith in the manufacturer who designed and assembled the vehicle. We didn't see the car being assembled nor did we watch the engineers and designers lay out the blueprint for the vehicle, but we "trust" that they knew what they were doing when they designed the car, truck, van, or SUV. That trust which in most cases is unrelated to first hand knowledge that we possess, puts us into a two ton vehicle just about every day and we do so without hesitation. Our "trust" has merged into the lane of faith, and that faith is demonstrated daily through our own individual actions. So by saying "Trust in the Lord" what we are actually saying is have faith that whatever happens in your life, God has a plan and you are part of it, and whatever happens in your life is in some way part of God's plan. If we believe that is true, then we develop faith, and if we truly have faith, then we get into the vehicle of life each morning and trust that God has a plan and we are traveling each day to our destination. What we do along the trust ride is up to us, if we say we "trust", then we must have faith in God's plan, and if we trust and believe, then we must and will obey God's Holy Bible and follow His commands for the life He gave us to live. 

Why is trusting in God so hard for someone to do? Well, it isn't as long as life is going just the way we want it to go. Going back to our vehicle analogy above, as long as our vehicle is working properly, the tank is full of gas, and there are no visible or audible issues with the vehicle, then we easily "trust" that we can hop in and go for the day's journey. Yet, if smoke is coming out from under the hood, or a clinkity- clank noise is heard when we turn on the ignition, then our trust in the vehicle quickly diminishes and we aren't as confident in our mode of transportation. This holds true for us as humans as well. When life is good, health checks out, bills are paid, and family is fine, it is easy to say, "Yes, I trust in the Lord", and why wouldn't we? God is meeting all our needs and just like the shirt says, "Life is Good". The true challenge in trusting God comes when things are not so good, when life gives us a "flat tire" of sorts. This is where trust turns our faith into action. 

In James 2:14-26 the author challenges us to show our faith in God without showing our faith in action. "What does it profit, my brethren, if someone says he has faith but does not have works? Can faith save him? If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you says to them, "Depart in peace, be warmed and filled," but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit? Thus also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead." Our "works" as James points out are the demonstration of our trust in God, and then regardless of the circumstances our trust becomes our faith which moves us to action. Or at least that is the way it is supposed to go. Again, trusting in good times is way easier than having faith that God is working through every situation we have going on in our lives and He wants us to build our faith in Him, and that faith is actionable and visible in all we say and all we do regardless of our circumstances or current status in life. 

Where we potentially struggle is when we aren't representing our trust/faith through our works/daily choices. We must strive to be a reflection of God's love in all we do. God's love is witnessed through the actions and steps we take each day to serve others as we live out Jesus' example of servant leadership. In the book of Matthew 25, Jesus shares the parable of the goats and the sheep through which He explains how trusting in Him is demonstrated by our works for Him or our lack of faith in Him is played out through the absence of our acts of service to our fellow man. This paradox is presented in terms of service to God through our service to others. "I was hungry and you either fed me or ignored me, I was thirsty and you either gave me a drink or you denied my thirst, I was a stranger and you either invited me in or you denied me access, I was without a warm coat and you either gave me yours or you buttoned yours up and walked on, I was sick and you either took care of me or you ignored my illness, I was imprisoned and you either came to visit me or you forgot all about my very existence." (Matthew 25:35-43) The follow through on that set of scriptures is summed up by Jesus in saying "What you did or didn't do for the least of these you did or didn't do for me." (Matthew 25: 40-45). Thus trusting is demonstrated through faith, and faith is demonstrated through our works, which is carried out through service to others regardless of our own situations in life.

As our time together comes to a close today, I want to encourage you in growing your trust factor by allowing your faith to move you to service to others in the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Things may be tough, things may be rough, and the end may be nowhere in sight, yet our faith can only be witnessed by others through our very service to them. When I stand before God, my hope is that He will look at me and say, "Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!" (Matthew 25:23). My prayer is that God will meet with you and offer you the same invitation to enter into His Kingdom. Amen.

Coach Carter

What Do You Want to BE?

 It is graduation time around this grand country and as I had the opportunity once again to address one of our high school graduating classes, I would like to share an expanded version of my message to this year's graduates. 

As a child, I feel certain that the majority of you were asked countless times, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" To which many of you replied a doctor, a lawyer, a veterinarian, or possibly even a teacher. Today, you will go forward in that pursuit of the goals and dreams you have set for yourself. Yet, for me that question isn't really about finding a job or career that will allow you to make more money, or enable you to buy more things than your neighbor, instead it is all about you finding your calling, your purpose in life. To that, I want to inspire you to BE the best you, that you can BE.

BE a lifetime learner. You are graduating high school, turning the page, not closing the book. Pursue knowledge and never lose the desire to grow and learn. Regardless of your chosen career, be the best and always strive to be better. Seek the lesson and learn from your mistakes and those instances some would label as failures. If you do that you will succeed in life. 

BE a change agent. Mahatma Gandhi challenged each of us with these words, "Be the change you wish to see in the world." In your pursuit of a career that will sustain and provide for you and your future family, search for your calling that will allow you to use your strengths and talents to make this world a better place to live for your children's children. Never accept the status quo as fact. Change occurs when you see a problem and you believe you have an answer and then you take the necessary steps to change the status quo. This world has problems, choose one. 

BE strong and resilient. In your lives you have already endured and overcome a global pandemic that rocked the world and a more regional catastrophic weather event unlike anything the majority of us in this stadium have ever witnessed. Whether you realize it yet or not, you have developed the grit and perseverance to overcome any adversity you will encounter in life. Use that character trait in all of your endeavors. Never quit, and never give up, and always do your best!

Most importantly, above all else, BE-lieve. Develop a faith that surpasses explanation and hold tight to hope because hope will not and does not disappoint. (Romans 5:3-5). Live out your faith each day, when things get tough as they most certainly will at some point, remember that you are not walking this road alone. "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10.

Congratulations to each of you on reaching this milestone in your life, I can't wait to see what you do next!

Coach Carter