Endurance

 John 3:16 is probably the most frequently quoted verse in scripture, and if that is true, Philippians 4:13 isn't far behind. Athletes preparing for competition may be the group that most commonly recite this verse. Picture an Olympic weightlifter as he approaches the bar holding what will be his personal best if he successfully lifts the weight. Over and over again he repeats the verse, "I can do all things, I can do all things, I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength!" That may very well be an appropriate application of Paul's declaration, yet I believe Paul had a varying mindset as he penned this encouraging verse. For me this verse "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" Phil. 4:13, screams of endurance and perseverance. Allow me to explain myself. 

Overcoming a challenge requires endurance, but in the above example of our muscle bound Olympian, the encouragement of referencing Philippians 4:13 is more of a motivation to excel rather than endure. I can win this race, I can get this job promotion, I will have a successful surgery. In these instances the support of leaning into Philippians 4:13 is more about the outcome than it is about the investment of time and patience to endure through whatever lies in front of us. Paul penned this scripture not in isolation, but as a culmination of a much larger proclamation of faith. The preceding verses are critical to understanding Paul's declaration of faith found in Philippians 4:13. 

In the same chapter, just before Paul shares his "I can do all things" statement,  Paul shares his adherence to the concept of faith through endurance in verses 11-12. "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want." Philippians 4:11-12. To me this speaks more to enduring circumstances and adversity rather than an encouragement to win the competition of a sports arena. 

Paul says he has learned to be content whatever the situation is. He has learned to endure hunger and he has learned to give thanks in times of plenty. For me, the best application of this verse is found in our reliance on God to walk alongside us regardless of what is happening in us or to us. Sickness, work challenges, relationships, financial uncertainty, all of these can cause us to waiver and stumble if we don't understand that the endurance we embrace, will build the perseverance that will lead us to the contentment that Paul references and most certainly adhered to in his own personal life journey. 

Whatever you are going through I will not minimalize in any manner, in your world it is big. What I will tell you today is you can do this, not on your own, but because you are not alone! Our daughter recently shared that the girl's preschool director and my dear lifelong friend, Mrs. Judy Wise, frequently reminds the boys and girls that they can do hard things. That is God's message to you through the encouraging words of the Apostle Paul, YOU can do hard things, YOU can do ALL things, not on your own, but through Christ who gives us the strength, the will, and the endurance to persevere regardless of what is standing in front of us. The contentment which could be labelled peace, is where the strength of this verse is found. Paul said "I have learned to be content" (Phil. 4:11) regardless of his current situation. When you are enduring  sickness for yourself or a loved one, being content sounds off center. I don't believe God was telling Paul to be content in the sickness, but to be content in knowing that God is in control, God has a plan for each of our lives, and we find the peace and strength to confidently move forward because "He who is in us, is greater than he who is in the world" I John 4:4. Our peace and endurance isn't because of anything we can do, but our comfort is found in trusting that we can do ALL things through Christ who is living in us. That is the essence of Philippians 4:13, I can, you can, we can do ALL things through Christ who is in me, in you, in us and He gives us the strength we need to not only endure, but to conquer and overcome! 

Confidently move forward knowing that the God of all creation lives in you, and His strength walks before you and in you! Amen

Coach Carter

Change How You Think ...

 Life is full of choices, research tells us that each person potentially makes up to 35,000 conscious decisions each day. Take sleep time out of the equation, (which involves a decision about when to go to bed) and the numbers equate to something like 2000 decisions each hour or a decision every two seconds. Exhausting if you had time to think about it! For today's purpose, I'd like for us to focus on how we spend our time thinking. The way I see it we have a choice in how we think. We can either spend our time worrying about things, or we can spend our time meditating and in prayer about those same concerns. 

Worrying is not constructive. As a matter of fact worrying is debilitating and thus destructive in nature. Spending your time worrying about matters doesn't change the matter in any way. Should I go or should I stay? Will I fail or will I be successful? The list goes on and on, we can literally worry ourselves out of doing anything. Productivity is decreased or denied as we digress into worrying and creating mental images of the worse case scenarios in our minds. In Luke 12:25-26 Jesus raises this poignant question, "Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to your life? Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?" Not being a fatalist, but more of a realist, we aren't guaranteed tomorrow, none of us are. When we woke up this morning, that was the gift we received, the gift of today. Holocaust survivor Corrie Ten Boom said this about worrying, "Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength." If we spend our time worrying about what "might" happen, then we give up on the potential of what "might" happen if we move forward instead of sitting around worrying about things that haven't even happened. It would be interesting to see how many people would have been successful in life if they could have just left their worries behind them in the dust of hesitation and fear. Worrying is an anchor that we choose to knot ourselves to, but as with any choice there is another option, an option that provides the energy to move forward with confidence and hope!

"Don't worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank Him for all He has done." Philippians 4:6 (NLT). The Apostle Paul could have been justified by our modern standards if he had been a worrier. After his conversion as a Christian persecutor to that of a mouthpiece for the Christian faith as we know it today, Paul spent the last portion of his life being persecuted, pursued, and prosecuted for his faith in Jesus. I suppose you could say Paul had legitimate concerns that would have caused many of us to be stuck in our worries and fears. But not Paul, his challenge to the Church in Philippae was to stop worrying and start praying. Prayer and meditation about your prayers is powerful. Paul went on to explain why prayer is so much more powerful than worry, "Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His Peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7 (NLT). In other words, prayer instead of worry creates peace in your heart and mind. That peace, God's peace, exceeds what we are humanly capable of experiencing on our own. When we spend our time praying and seeking God's will, not our own, that peace is powerful and it allows us to move forward confidently guided by a higher calling than our own design. 

Prayer in itself isn't going to solve our dilemmas and it doesn't guarantee us that our potential worries will magically be resolved. What prayer and subsequent meditation does provide is hope. God's response to our prayers isn't what reduces the worries of life, it is more of the salve that is applied to an injury to heal the hurt and reduce the pain. Ultimately, prayer provides peace in your life's storms and when we experience the peace of God that is where we transcend worry to a state of peace. The status may not change, but the perspective we adopt changes. When the perspective changes what might have been used to create worry and anxiety actually becomes the very fuel that motivates and moves us to where God needs and wants us to be. Fear freezes, faith fuels. 

Am I immune to worry? I'd be telling one if I said that I never worry. Do I live or choose not to live my life because of the worries in my life? No. When I begin to feel that I am worrying, I turn to prayer to help bring my thoughts into a different perspective on life and what is happening in my life. I move from a place of what is happening to me, to a place of what God is doing through me. When my perspective is more about what God can do in me and through me, I begin to leave behind the worries of what may or may not even happen. Worry is time lost that denies us of the unlimited possibilities God has in store for us if only we step into the light of God's purpose for the life He has given us to live. Change how you think and change how you live life!  

Coach Carter

 

Waiting

 "The Lord is good unto them that wait for Him, to the soul that seeketh Him. It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the Lord." Lamentations 3:25-26

Waiting is a skill that many of us struggle with, we have become accustomed to instant gratification when we see something we want. Fast food, overnight delivery, and instant communication technology make it hard to practice the skill of waiting for something. This instant gratification mentality has become so prevalent in our world that it even spills over into our prayers and requests to God. In the face of hardship, uncertainty, or any level of adversity, we want to come to God and pray for an instant answer. Where we have become programmed to expect instant responses to our request, it is humanly reasonable that we would expect God to respond to our prayers instantly. But that isn't how God works. As the scripture above explains, "it is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait" (Lament. 3:26). With so many instant solutions available in life, is it possible to develop the skill of waiting? The fruit tree farmer is a prime example of someone who has polished the skill of waiting, active waiting that is. 

Think about it. A fruit tree farmer plants a seed and then at best has to wait 6 to 8 years before fruit is produced. That requires a tremendous amount of patience and trust that the time invested will eventually pay off. This is where the skill of waiting becomes active. If planting the seed was all that a tree farmer had to do that would make it a pretty easy task. He would plant the seeds and then come back six or seven years later and start harvesting the tree's fruit. That isn't how waiting works in farming and it isn't how it works in our prayer requests. True, after the seed is planted the waiting period begins, but not a passive, sitting back and waiting for the outcome to happen. Active waiting requires us to take all actionable steps to move forward as we wait on God's plans to be fulfilled. This methodology applies well to how prayer works as well. Planting seeds, and saying a prayer is just the beginning of the process. 

After the seed is planted the farmer commits to nurturing the seed throughout its seedling stage, then to a sapling, and onward to the time that it becomes a mature fruit bearing tree. Adding nutrients to the soil, providing adequate amounts of water, and weeding the area around the tender plant ensure that the tree has the opportunity to grow and mature properly. The Apostle Paul compared nurturing God's plans and purpose to the same duties our tree farmer must adhere to in this scripture from I Corinthians 3:6-8 "I  planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The one who plants and the one who waters have one purpose, and they will each be rewarded according to their labor." The farmer plants and provides the labor, but at the end of the day, it is God who causes the tree to bear fruit. In the same way, we make our prayer requests known to God, but after that we are called to action. We just don't rub the magic God lamp and instantly receive the answer to our prayers. After we pray, we begin the process of actively waiting on God to answer our prayers. 

Actively waiting on God means that we go about the business of seeking His will, following His commands, and nurturing the seeds that God has planted in our hearts, minds, and body. We are called to action in our waiting, prayer is not a passive activity, and it is not a guarantee that the outcome will be exactly what we have prayed. With prayer there exists three responses, yes, no, or not right now. Having a personal relationship with our Maker is critical in understanding and accepting this truth. Through prayer and meditation we learn to discern our desires from God's plans, and we gain wisdom to understand that God's plans are bigger than we may ever see. Submitting to God's will is an action step in the waiting process while God works in us and through us. So just as the tree farmer must nurture the tree as it grows, we too must nurture our relationship with God in preparation for His will to come to "fruition" in us. 

Waiting, actively waiting is an ongoing process that doesn't stop when our prayers are answered. Just as the fruit tree farmer has to continue to prune and inspect the trees for any kind of infestation, we too must continue to increase and grow our relationship with God. "... The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much." James 5:16. The verse doesn't say that the fervent prayer of a righteous person availeth much as soon as he prays, the promise isn't in the timing of God's action, but more about His promise to hear our prayers and then we submit those prayers to actively wait on God to fulfill His purpose and plans in us and through us. 

Two calls to action today. First, there is an ancient Chinese proverb that says the best time to plant a tree is twenty years ago, and the next best time is today. Plant a tree for your children's children. Second, as you plant the seeds of your prayers and concerns to God, set a course of action that won't have you passively sitting around waiting for God to miraculously answer your prayers. The fact that a tiny seed can become a mighty oak is amazing, just imagine what God has in store for you! 

Coach Carter

In the Dark

 The phrase, "being kept in the dark", speaks to the idea that someone is purposefully not being given the whole story in a given situation. This could range from not telling someone that the reason they are to arrive at a location at a certain time is because there is a surprise birthday party planned in their honor, all the way up to some type of hidden agenda created to deceive or mask ulterior plans. I recently had an encounter with a dark closet that illuminated my perception of this poignant, little phrase.

I enjoy the stillness of the early morning. No TV, no music, low lamp lighting, and limited distractions make it a perfect setting to study, meditate, listen, and pray. I function well in the calming darkness of the predawn hours, even when a room in our home is dark, I get around well without stubbing my toe or tripping over an errant toy or stuffy left by one of the grandkids. Paradoxically, I have reached that stage in life where reading glasses are a must. My overall vision is still good, but magnifying the print in a book or paper is my norm today. I have a pair of readers sitting near my devotional spot, in my vehicle, in a drawer at work, and one that I keep hung around my neck as I move about my day. I've gotten so used to wearing my "readers" that many times I'll just push the glasses down towards the tip of my nose and just look out over my glasses when I'm looking at something beyond print that I can see adequately without the aid of magnification. 

One particular morning, I had started my devotional time when I realized I needed a new journal out of my closet. I hopped up and strolled into the spare bedroom to retrieve the book from our closet. I didn't think to turn on the light because I was pretty sure I knew exactly where my stash of journals was located. The darkness of the closet surprised me a bit as I struggled more than I anticipated. At that moment during my struggle to find the writing journal in the dark closet, I realized I still had my glasses on. In a moment of clarity amongst the darkness of the closet, the epiphany struck me that my glasses would not be of any assistance as long as I was "kept in the dark". The readers that level my eyesight to near 20/20 vision were of no assistance when there was no light to assist my ability to see. I suppose this was my "Aha" moment from God for today's Flat Tire Ministries moment. We can have the best vision possible, but still not be able to see if we are overtaken by the dark. 

For our purpose today, darkness refers to anything that keeps us from seeing more clearly the truth of our life's current situation or anything that obstructs our decision making process. In our mind we may believe we are living in accordance with God and His plan for the life we are called to live, but could it be that darkness has decreased our ability to see the reality of our situation? Jesus shared a parable about two men who had two completely different views of their personal faith and relationship with God. In the Gospel of Luke 18:9-14 Jesus tells of a Pharisee and a tax collector who both came to the temple to pray about their salvation. Pharisees were religious members of society who lived a legalistic, holier than thou, lifestyle before, during, and after the death of Jesus. When I say "holier than thou" what I am saying is that the Pharisees were definitely "religious", but their strict adherence to the commands of the Old Testament made them unwilling to accept anything or anyone that was not in direct compliance with the Bible as they interpreted it. Tax collectors on the other hand were despised by the vast majority of people in Jesus' day because of the persecution and heavy burden their tax collecting efforts had on the average family. In the parable, the Pharisee approached the temple with this arrogant prayer, "God, I thank you that I am not like other people - robbers, evildoers, adulterers - or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get." Luke 18:11-12. On the other hand, the tax collector, in a repentant stance, stayed back away from the temple and cried out, "God, have mercy on me, a sinner!" Luke 18:13. Jesus proceeded to share "I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted." Luke 18:14. Standing the two characters from this parable beside each other with their bio below their picture it would appear easy to choose which one was justified in their faith. Yet, the Pharisee, in his mind, was better than those who weren't as religiously lawful than himself, which made him better than others that were deemed less religious. The tax collector, by definition, would have been seen as a sinner beyond sinners, yet his recognition of his own sin ladened life provided him with forgiveness and salvation. I think it is safe to say the Pharisee's legalistic faith created a situation where he was in the dark about the reality of his judgmental arrogance. 

As I reflected on my "walk in the dark" experience, it came to me that we have to be careful to not allow ourselves to start thinking we are better than others or that we are right and "they" are wrong when it comes to matters that we should not be attempting to be the judge and jury in. Our job is to remain humble, accepting all others just as Jesus modeled, and rather than judging others leave that to the One that will not only judge others, but will also judge the life that you and I live. Jesus reminds us that judging others isn't our job in Matthew 7:3-5, "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye', when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." Clearly, just as it is being in a dark closet, if you have a plank in your eye you can't see clearly. 

My daily prayer is to remain humble and non-judgmental in my walk of faith. I am a sinner and only by and through the grace of God am I saved. I pray that the love I show for all mankind resembles the agape type of love that Jesus taught about and displayed to all mankind. Amen

 Coach Carter

Glory in Our Suffering

Today's Flat Tire Thought opens the door to some speculation right out the gate by just reading the title. Finding glory in suffering sounds a little challenging at best, and somewhat ludicrous on a surface level. "Oh, I just broke my leg, I am so happy!" I don't think that is how it works. At the moment of breaking a leg the vast majority of people would not be expressing happiness or joy, they typically express pain and suffering, so "unhappiness" would most likely be the word that comes to mind for most people. I think that is easily verifiable and overall something we can all agree on, instances that cause us to suffer are not enjoyable and do not lead us to a place where we can "glory" in our suffering. Then why is it that the Apostle Paul made this statement in Romans 5:3-4? "Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character hope." This is where we will spend our time together today. 

I suppose defining the word glory is appropriate as we dip into this idea of finding glory through suffering. For our purpose the word glory is best defined as, "recognizing God's presence in all facets of our life". The verse Paul shares is a recognition by Paul that God is always with us in the good, the bad, and even in the ugly occurrences of life. To receive glory through suffering isn't something that just happens, it is a process that happens over time and through adversity and affliction. 

Fortunately or as it may appear unfortunately, growth comes through adversity. A seed doesn't grow unless it first dies which enables life and growth to take place, (John 12:24). With our broken leg example, the growth that is experienced through the pain and suffering of a broken leg can be described as perseverance. With a broken leg or any other situation that could be viewed as a setback, we are given a choice. We can either lay down or we can get up, get out, and get going. Rehab, training, exercise, and a continuous effort to improve are all necessary for recovery to take place properly. Those who dig in and set achievable goals see progress and thus develop perseverance. There's just something about learning to persevere over our life's challenges, it builds confidence, improves our outlook on the world, and makes us accountable for our own choices and outcomes. All of this which is gained through developing our personal perseverance molds the person we are becoming, you could say it builds our character. 

When I think of character, I visualize one of those caricature drawings where the artist magnifies certain aspects of the subject's face or body. Something stands out about a person whose character is intact. They don't have to say a word, but people are drawn to someone who has high moral standards, trustworthy and blameless, and leads from a position of service to others over self. The perseverance that is developed through overcoming adversity is the training grounds for building one's character. When I think of overcoming adversity Winston Churchill pops into my frontal lobe. Churchill's call to the Brits to never give up and never quit as Germany blitzed across Europe is energizing to me. The perseverance and resilience Churchill embodied was a rallying cry for the island country, a gritty call that fortified his character and immobilized countries around the world to stand firm alongside Western Europe. The life Jesus lived is the prime example of living a life of high character. Sinless, blameless, and full of compassion and empathy, Jesus lived out a life of service to others to the point of death on the cross. 

If you know the story of Jesus' death on the cross, then you know that is not where the story ends. The life of Jesus would not be complete if we didn't include His ultimate resurrection. This is where hope is invoked. Adversity creates suffering, but it doesn't end there. We face adversity, but we don't sit in it, we persevere moving forward, believing in our heart that God has a purpose for our lives. That perseverance builds momentum in who we are and who we are becoming which shapes our character which is on display in the life we live each day. And guess what? We live out each day with an expectancy of a fulfilled life. We can't see tomorrow, but we place our hope in an understanding that tomorrow will be exactly what God has planned for it to be, and it is our job to live out today to its fullest, striving forward and not looking back! Faith on display. Faith is based in hope, Hebrews 11:1 explains it like this, "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." We can't see the future, we don't know what tomorrow is going to bring, but because we persevere through adversity and we incorporate that resilience into our daily growth until it just becomes part of who we are. That is the essence of developing character. From there we become transformed from someone that is going it alone in life, to a person confident that we are never going it alone and that there is a purpose for anything and everything in life. When we live there, there is hope and hope does not fail. "And hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us." Romans 5:5. 

It all begins with faith, but that faith grows through suffering, persevering, and moving forward through life's adversity. We get knocked down, but we become the person who gets back up. That shapes who we are and the person we are known to be. That character trait then carries us forward to a place where we know we will become an overcomer, which culminates in hope and a faith that has been tried, tested, and proven worthy to be glorified! Praise God! Amen. 

Coach Carter

 

The Anatomy of a Flashlight

 

My guess is most of us have a flashlight. Either in your car for emergencies, toolbox for work related needs, or probably the most common location of your flashlight would be in a drawer or cabinet at home for times when the power suddenly goes out. A flashlight in need is a much appreciated item to possess, the problem is the "need" for a flashlight is mainly limited to what we would label emergencies. That being said, the value of owning a flashlight drastically diminishes if when needed the light doesn't come on when engaged. Each part or component of a flashlight is critical for the light to shine, being familiar with the major parts of the light is important for proper maintenance or repair when that light does not shine. In our time together today, we are going to do a little comparison of the light we receive from our flashlights, and the light we emit from our relationship with God. Let's do a little dive into the major components in a flashlight and their related purpose for light to be emitted. 

The body of a flashlight is labelled as the tube and its purpose is to act as a protective shell for the interior parts that are susceptible to breakage or other types of damage. The light source of a flashlight is pretty easy for us to identify, the bulb emanates different types of light. To support the bulb, all flashlights have a reflector or lens which serves the purpose of directing the light beam outward. Inside the tube, you will find a circuit board, which carries out the responsibility of controlling the flow of electricity to the bulb or light source. Additionally inside the tube is the part that provides the energy for the light to shine, the battery. The parts listed above work in harmony to provide light in a dark space. We too must have a light to see in the darkness both literally and figuratively. A crosswalk between the parts and function of a flashlight to the need of the "Light" in our own lives is not only easily achievable, but highly practical as a constant reminder of the need for His Light to shine in us and through us. 

Comparing our personal selves with a flashlight may sound a little out there, yet there does exist an uncanny resemblance upon reflection. The body component is pretty much self-explanatory, our human bodies fulfill a similar purpose of protecting our vital internal components. That being said, it is necessary to point out that in Christ we are His body, (I Corinthians 12:27). If we then adhere to that understanding, then it just goes to reason that in relation to our flashlight analogy, we then too are the light of Christ and we should shine that light accordingly. The circuit board of our light will determine the type of light we emanate much like a flashlight that I own. As you cycle through the bulbs there is a regular light bulb that illuminates my path (John 8:12), a laser pointer bulb to pinpoint the focus (Habakkuk 3:4), a broader light that fills a room (Matthew 5:15), and a blue light for times when your path is cloudy or uncertain (Psalm 119:105). Our lens or reflection of Christ's light is a critical component in our daily walk. What do we reflect to those we live, love, and work with each day? If the Light of Christ is shining in and through us then it is important that we grow in that light. That growth is accomplished through strengthening our heart, mind, body, and soul which are the batteries of our life. By studying His Word, hearing His Word being taught, and worshipping through prayer and meditation we are assured that we are charging our spiritual batteries. 

There is one additional part of a flashlight that determines the impact of a flashlight and also the potential light we have to shine for others to see. Nothing happens if the power switch is not engaged. Just as this part of the flashlight controls the connection between the light bulb and power source, we consciously make the decision to allow God's Light to shine in and through us. Walking in darkness hinders our progress toward reaching our life's potential and purpose. And if you've ever attempted to walk around in the dark, it is a good way to stump your toe or fall flat on your face. Making the choice of turning on the Light is yours, no one can turn it on for you, and likewise, no one can turn off your Light!

Unfortunately, many choose to allow their faith relationship to be much like that of the flashlight. We place God in a cabinet or toolbox for an emergency situation where we need His Light to lead us out of the darkness. For a flashlight to work properly all parts must be in working condition and the batteries must be fully charged. Keep your faith charged and allow it to shine bright! "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in Heaven." Matthew 5:16

Coach Carter

Start Small

 If there is one piece of advice I can share as we get this new year underway it would be related to growth and or change. Start small. New Year's resolutions have good intentions, yet the standard goals of losing weight, exercising more, stop smoking, drinking, or whatever your current vice you would like to distance yourself from, all have the tendency to be stop cold turkey and don't look back. For others it is to start a new business or implementing a new strategy for a current business endeavor. Whatever it is that you plan to embark on in 2026, I do believe that small victories and incremental steps forward should be your measuring stick for success instead of looking for a grand slam homerun in your first at bat in this fledgling new year. 

Wisdom. By definition the word refers to the ability to apply knowledge, experience, and good judgment to navigate life's complexities. A key word in that definition is experience. When it comes to growing, I have experienced my share of personal growth, much of which was not so pleasant at the time, but through those experiences I feel like my wisdom markers have grown exponentially. From my own dropped New Year's Resolutions, to a not so positive outcome for a restaurant venture, taking the advice to start out small might have created some early success and a foundation to grow and expand. 

Whatever it is that you want to accomplish this year, whether it be a resolution to exercise more or taking that step to open a new business, slow steady progress is part of the recipe for success. The rabbit came out running fast and took the early lead, yet we all know who ended up crossing the finish line first. If you want positive change to occur in your life, then you have to stack up several small wins so the foundation for the bigger victories has something to stand on when things get tougher. Paul shared this valuable bit of wisdom with his protege Timothy, "Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress." I Timothy 4:15. Progress is the key. Maybe your goal is to go back to school to advance yourself in your current job. Grand goal, just don't start out the semester with a full load and no plans to alter your lifestyle to compensate for the additional time that commitment will require. Planning on a new diet with a goal of getting back in shape? Instead of going cold turkey on the sweets, breads, and crunchy, salty snacks, creating a plan to eat less and exercise more will pay dividends. And if a new business is your goal in 2026, start out with a small budget and low, low overhead. Don't make the mistake of thinking bigger and quicker is better, remember Paul's advice, be diligent and show off your progress as you continue to grow. 

There is one other area that I want to always set as a goal each new day that I have been given to live. I want to deepen my faith relationship with God. Trusting God, following God, and serving God are areas where the small start creates a dichotomy of sorts. When we accept Christ as our Savior, that signals an all in decision, yet just as in any other venture, the broader our early approach, the harder it is to maintain for the long run. In the parable of the sower, Jesus said this about those who are on fire, but fizzle out, "The seed falling on rocky ground refers to someone who hears the word and at once receives it with joy. But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away." Matthew 13:20-21. When we ask God into our hearts and we commit to follow and serve, that is an all in commitment, but as in any relationship, growth comes with time and time takes time. It is over time that we learn and grow through listening, reading, praying, and meditating  which in turn allows us to grow in wisdom and discernment. Commit to God in a big way, gradual progress makes for continued growth. 

January 1, 2026 has already come and gone and with it some folks have already made a resolution to start something big and then left it sitting on the side of the road by January 2, 2026. Whatever it is that you want to start off the year doing more of or less of my advice for you today is to take it slow, start small, and gain some early wins. "The kingdom of Heaven is like a mustard seed, which a man took and planted in his field. Though it is the smallest of all seeds, yet when it grows, it is the largest of all garden plants and becomes a tree, so that the birds come and perch in its branches." Matthew 13: 31-32. Start small, grow big and mighty! 

Coach Carter